Life is a series of tradeoffs.
Usually the probem is not being willing to make any trades. We want it both. All.
But the flip side is when we get caught up with the choices that are presented to us.
I’ve only been to church once in the past few years, a talk at a local buddhist temple.
The speaker spoke of the third way, finding other routes instead of just following the binary.
So I guess it’s really a question of more than the tradeoffs at hand, but which ones to contemplate.