GRIZZLY PEAR

written snapshots

Category: Penny Delights

  • He jumps on his chair, raises his arms, looks down at us, and hollers “I am taller than all of you!”

    Staying at the in-laws,
    Digging into the closet,
    She finds momma’s old shoes.

    Shiny taupe flats with half inch heels,
    Clomp, clomp, clomp!
    Marching on the tile.

    Her feet are still small,
    But the ankles fill the throats;
    Last year’s gap is gone.

    ䷑䷝

    cross great water
    before three days
    after three days
    twin flames

  • As this household transitions to English around the dinner table, each high stakes polysyllabic word is enunciated with detail.

    你再下来就没有snacks!
    (Come down (from the table) again, then no snacks!)

    Poo-poo!
    (he just came back from trying to poop, unsuccessfully)

    真的? 这次没有大便也没有snacks!
    (Really? If you don’t poo this time, then no snacks!)

    Oh! 我说了 acc-i-dent-a-ly.
    (
    Oh! I said it accidentally.)

  • Over dinner, we surfed the film of Negatives and Positives.

    One minus One is Zero!
    One minus One is Zero!
    One minus One is Zero!

    He’s been watching Numberblocks

    The next day, he exclaimed
    One minus Two is Zero!
    Momma sat him down to explain negative numbers.

    He spent dinner enthralled in this new realm of arithmetic.
    Three minus Five is Negative Two!
    One minus a Hundred is Negative Ninety-Nine!

    His sister chimed in
    Negative Two minus Negative Five is Three!

  • 小宝宝去睡觉!

    The girl was an awful sleeper as a baby.
    This lullaby emerged over hours of trying to walk her to sleep.

    小宝宝去睡觉
    (little precious, go to sleep)

    It never worked.

    Not for her.
    Not for him.

    It just riles them up.
    So I sing it at every opportunity.

    Last year, I transcribed it into Flat.io so you can now hear it as a round, because I doubt I’ll ever convince anyone in the family to sing along with me.

  • He found gender and status on faces of metal, plastic, and glass.

    We walked by a Chevrolet.
    He pointed at the golden skewed cross.
    医生车! (doctor car!)

    He said our Odyssey is a 女的车 (girl car).
    Headlights with long curved eyelashes,
    Like his sister’s cartoons.

    ䷆䷜

    chase the pheasant
    grab the illusion

  • Work at Office, Week 1

    Day 1, Back in the Office!

    …and my first meeting is on Microsoft Teams, even though the three of us are within fifty feet of each other.

    (screen sharing > face to face!)

    Work at Office, Day 2

    Sure is nice chatting in person after almost three years apart. I’m very blessed to enjoy the company of my colleagues.

    At the end of the day, I realized that I’ve forgotten where the light switches are scattered around the building.

    The delighted squeals of the kids when I came back home was a nice bonus.

    Word of the Day 3

    Solutioning.

    This meeting is only for updates, we will address solutioning at future meetings.

  • We re-shape our lives for a pink rubber unicorn with a pastel yellow horn.

    Chasing her brother,
    she slipped on the tile,
    and chipped her tooth.
    She came home with a tiny unicorn eraser.

    The boy asked about the “vet”.
    He threatened to brush his teeth —
    Badly!
    He wants to visit the dentist.

    ䷥䷁

    honest
    non-action
    hidden effort
    no end

  • Fantastic Mr. Fox, Roald Dahl, 1970, & Wes Anderson, 2009

    She enjoyed the trailer and this is one of her favorites from the Roald Dahl book set. We gave it a whirl on New Year’s Eve.

    The girl closed 2022 by learning the hard truth that adaptations distort beloved stories. She expressed her dismay throughout the viewing. Expecting fidelity is a surefire path to disappointment.

    I hadn’t read the book, so I thought it was fine. It was a welcome respite from the current Pixar aesthetic. The story and characters had a delightful edge (which Disney studiously avoids). I haven’t watched Wes Anderson before, but I now grok his reputation. I’d watch him again.

    After the kids went to bed, I read the book. It’s a fun, quiet story. I get why my daughter felt let down.

    We discussed it further on New Year’s Day —

    The director added all that stuff to fill a 90 minute movie.

    But why did he make these changes?

    Those are plot devices to manufacture tension.

    Were they necessary? The book was better.

    I agree, but the mass market demands more excitement in their movies.

    As a father, it hurts to feel her sense of betrayal. Then again, she’s embarking upon lifetime of disappointing movie adaptations.

    Best that we got the initial shock out of the way, last year.

    ䷲䷚

    last night
    she reread

    still prefers
    the source

  • Happy New Year!

    Kids are off to bed and I’m enjoying a quiet pre-midnight indulgence.

    Not sure I’ll make it to the big 0:00.

    Here’s to next year!

    a photograph of wood table with a thin can San Pellegrino Limonata flavored sparkling drink,  Ghirardelli Peppermint Bark Square wrapper, and an iPhone playing Waltz for Debby by the Bill Evans Trio.  “Happy 2023” is written in magenta on the left side of the image
  • I didn’t even get a hug before he left.

    Mamma called out bedtime.
    He rushed into our bedroom to say goodnight.

    He picked up the bright red foam roller,
    Tipped it onto one end,
    Stood on his tippy toes,
    Rested his forehead top of the new column.
    And circumambulated around this monument a few times.

    He sauntered out to play with his sister.

    avoid forest deep
    prince and princess
    stone pillar at home